Bai, living east of the Erhai wedding there are more ancient custom reserved.Married to this day, the groom with the next of kin team to the women pick up the bride, when we arrived at the door of the home of the bride, the groom will work out three Lawan, one hit to the pier in front of the home of the bride, issued three huge sound the cannons.So this is their homemade soil bomb.The bomb smoke is not casual, The lad carrying equipped with cigarettes, wine, tea, sugar, tea tray, a bow to the guests, welcome guests inside.The groom then the bride back to his home, entered the man's house, the bride and groom to be rushing to the run, in the bridal chamber to see who robbed the bridal chamber pillow, indicating that the person who is coming home in the masters.
"Father and mother with me is poor, do not have the money to the meters send love brother love brother never too young girl ugly even heart nose. "This is a spread in Rama out of a folk song, sing the the Rama person a custom that the girl gave the young man she fell in love with one pair of four nose grass, in order to express their love, loyalty.
In the past, Rama basic wear linen pants and sandals.Young people at home do not have control over the property to buy a little something, must be approved by the parents, but the traditional marriage are arranged by the parents decided, free exchanges and the love of the young people, often without the knowledge of their elders, so the girl the guy who wants send each gift, is a very difficult task.But, as the saying goes, "Love makes you smarter." Rama girls full use of their skills, create a unique keepsake of love.
Rama girl grew up along with the adults in the knitting, learning to play the sandals, to 14-year-old will be able to give the family of brothers and sisters, relatives and friends playing sandals.This sandals in front of two small rings, tethered to wear on their feet, like two nose.The old man said that the two nose means people have two feet, and sandals after ear string as one means only one body, sandals also an exhibit human form.
Rama girl to be inspired from this analogy, on their sandals and more plus two nose becomes four legs, feet symbol; while the four shoes nasal together, it has the legs in even one mind metaphorical.The men and women of which two fall in love, the soulmate the meaning is not self-evident.So, whenever the girl to find lovers, I started to play this unique four-nose sandals, gave the young man attracted to love.
The young man put on four nose sandals, my heart is filled with happiness and pride, like cherish life care, like the beloved girl.
Today, the Rama young love marriage is more freedom, they no longer like the past behind her parents go tryst tokens of love.But the girl play four nose sandals send lover customs still retained, that if a girl is not going to sandals, the young man will despise her parents would scold her unpromising.Rama among everyone know this truth: "If we want to know that the 18-year-old boy did not object, look at his feet, wearing one pair of four nose was not wearing sandals glance.To know that the 18-year-old girl have a boyfriend, just look at the pillow next to her, no hidden the four nose sandals clear. '
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